This is why I haven't posted like this before. Because I'm told:

1) I should not want to prevent suffering. Huh?

2) I used the word "everyone" - where? Not everyone has this experience.

3) I am judgemental. In giving an opinion based on experience - this is judgemental?

4) I am trying to hurt people.

5) My questions are rhetorical. No, they are not. I don't know the answers for everyone.

6) Oh yeah, I'm judgemental.

People get very defensive on this topic - I sure did when I was in the midst of it too.

I have posted about my experiences, here and elsewhere. It seems that people don't want to hear it.

Therapists are friends we have to pay. I value the free ones much more cuz they stick around even when you can't pay.

What would happen if you could no longer pay your therapist?

For me, after 7 years, he stopped taking insurance. So, it's over. He is the only person I ever told about my abuse. He is the only person who knows me. SEVEN years.

So, I worry about you guys. The trend in not accepting insurance is growing quickly. I worry. It seems like the erotic transference is worst for CSA survivors. I don't know why. So I worry especially about them.

Campy