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Old Jun 30, 2017, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by hopeless2015 View Post
I want to add please don't blame yourself for your husband's addiction and I think you should talk to a therapist about this issue! Hugs....also agree that if your on the same page with your new friend, enjoy yourself, you deserve it
Yes, I do need to work on that in therapy. I'm struggling with a lot of guilt. It was kind of a delayed reaction; when he first died I knew there was nothing I could have done but as time has gone on I just feel more and more responsible. Even though my rational mind know that's not true.

I appreciate all the reassurances from the group. I'm hoping my anxiety will calm down. I'm sure it's also due to nicotine withdrawal.
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