sounds like your T knows what he is doing/dealing with. He has accepted your erotic transference and knows what it means and how to handle it. The boundaries are clear, and everything seems to be in place. I see nothing wrong with your erotic feelings or the way T handles them. You are lucky to have such a good T that you can be open with about those feelings instead of feeling like you need to prevent them or erase them. Some others may not be as fortunate...