Pink,

This makes so much sense. It goes to show that these feelings are not always about having sex but about connecting. It's really no different than other ways of being when we are children.

For example, when a child looks to her caregiver for soothing and is met with neglect, she will look to external objects to self-soothe.

By the same token, a child who grows up in a sexualized environment may unwittingly repeat those patterns in therapy.

This is so interesting.

I think you are brave. I am still unsure of how to bring up these feelings but in time I suppose I will find the way.

Can you explain again, what the primal scene is?

Peace.