Hi all,

I know this thread will sound bad. It's kind of pathetic in my opinion. Long story short, I met someone who I thought was quite attractive, and nice. And I was quite sure she was interested in me (running into me alot, smiling, feeling like she was going out of her way to see her).

We chatted a bit over text and FB messenger. We were developing a decent friendship. We never really hung out or anything, but I found myself doing nice things for her, putting an extra effort into making her laugh, etc. I was basically going back to the things I used to do for old relationships.

Through discussions and I can't remember how it came up, but she kind of mentioned she thought I was good looking but not really her type (prefers more "country"). That made me feel quite low on myself - I took it as her only saying I was good looking to be polite - and eventually I got quite sour and freaked her out quite a bit. Asking too many question on why, being needy, clingy, etc.

We are basically not talking now, but I can't get her out of my mind anywhere I go, or whatever I am doing. I know there is 0 chance of a relationship (she considers attraction a big thing) but I can't move on. I've tried thinking of other women, but she keeps coming up. I see her about 3 times a week and the other dya was bad as I thought she looked really good and couldn't help but think why am I not good enough for her.

I realize this is a bit of a self-esteem issue, and a bit of an obsessive issue. But I really don't know if anyone has any tips for forgetting about someone who doesn't like you, will never like you, etc. I feel ugly, no girls ever approach me, etc.

Anyway just looking for any sort of tips.

Thanks!