If you were to say ok, I'll fix this would you know what it is you're fixing? If she things you're irresponsible...how so? Do you break things, leave the doors unlocked, not pay the rent on time? How are you irresponsible? That's what I'm getting at. She also said you were unclean but you said you did a fine job. Ok so what specifically are you unclean about? Do you not do dishes, not take the trash out, etc? How are you unclean? You can't fix something when you have no idea exactly what it is.