It was just about someone as a person, what she meant. As for cleaning, I forgot to clean the stove a couple times (it's black and I just forgot to clean some oily stains) but I did it and started doing it after that.
Else it's about someone as a person. She got that feeling about me. How can I fix it? I don't know, do you?
Also the "things I can do" part, do you have any ideas about that? It does not take up all day. I stll often feel that I don't know how to use my time. :/