Since being ostracized I feel so depressed and also suffer from low self esteem (like I'm not enough). Now, I feel like I get disrespected from people. If I talk they barely reciprocate, if I text they only text back hours or days later. If I try to make plans they avoid or evade or give in (but don't seem excited) - these were all my friends before. I've always been social and bubbly, happy and loving to people. I've never had a problem with people treating me super disrespectfully or avoiding me. This is hurting me more than I can even explain in words. It's like the narcissist I've been dealing with for a year has turned everyone against me, and there's nothing I can do about it. I don't want to be paranoid, bit it seems like this all started with the narc. It's hard not to hate this person. It's hard not to have a deep raging hate for them that spills over into my life.
And the thing is... I'm not an angry person. I'm a "live and let live" kind of person. This person has soiled that.

So... my question is:
How do I get people to stop treating me like I'm some underling who they can treat with distain?