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And he repeated "plain white," while looking all reflective and amused as if in real life he wears boxers that look like abstract paintings or something.

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I love your writing Pink. That line is just hilarious.

I remember reading that you said erotic transference is necessary to therapy. I'm kind of curious about that. I don't think I have any erotic feelings towards my T. I totally love him, but I've also completely cast him in a father-figure role. I would love for him to hold me, but it's not a sexual thing. The closest I get to erotic is imagining that he sees me in the arms of my new lover (assuming I ever find a new love in my life). I think that's a father-figure thing -- wanting him to see me as happy and being approving of my life or something.

Sidony