Alcoholics will only seek help when they reach their own
gutter. As long as you help her out,she will continue;in
short,you are 'enabling' her to carry on with her addiction.
This is tough stuff I know,but you can help her by not
supporting her in ways SHE wants. E.G. "I will call a cab for
you,but I will NOT come and pick you up."
Be Strong,
BLUEDOVE