Hello db: I'm so sorry you find yourself to be in this dreadful situation. Unfortunately, I don't know what exactly I could offer in terms of suggestions. But, from what you wrote, I would say get as far away from all of this as you can, as fast as you can, & don't look back! I'm sure being alone in some unfamiliar new place would be difficult. But I can't imagine it could be any worse than what you describe. I wish you well...