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Originally Posted by charlesm
So far I have done the best I can. I deleted messages from her, avoid checking her out on FB (we aren't FB friends) but sometimes find it difficult. I almost want to know she isn't with anyone but then realize it doesn't help my situation or if I did see someone with her it would make me feel worse.
I don't know this is hard to explain. I just feel terrible about my own looks, have never been one that is approached by women. I just am not sure how to make myself feel better, feel confident enough that I am better off with this person (she kind of ended it more or less and got all control).
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I am a firm believer in the old saying, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. While some woman do like the "pretty boys" with perfect hair, skin, teeth, body, whatever.... others of us want the more approachable men. Men we can feel safe and comfortable with. Some of us are more drawn and attracted to they're personality or maybe just the way the smile or laugh. There are many things that can make a man irresistible to woman. Try not to get hung up on just one attribute or another. I'm sure that you have more than just good looks to offer. Don't sell yourself short.��