My experience with T's was different. I would work with them for varying lengths of time, then develop a negative transference and either I would leave or I would stay and continue to try to "work things out", only getting extremely frustrated, then angry, then "lashing out".
That pattern mimicked relationships in my family of origin, only I was never "allowed" the negative transference, anger, and eventual separation. I suspect that the family was enmeshed, rather than a collection of individual people (women). Very sad.
Is there anything in your relationship with your T that mimics relationships in your family of origin, and any unfinished business there? Anything in you at all that wants separation? It might have it's own "mind" -- and not feel welcome with the rest of you?
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