I wish his girlfriend was around this week. I wanted to talk to her about his problems and how I can help. She literally follows him around the house to make sure he does not hurt himself. It's no way to live for either one of them. He has always had a drinking problem and has had self destructive behavior. He didn't even tell me that he up and quit his job. His girlfriend did. I think I would have gotten more answers from her...and I can't see anyone putting up with this type of behavior.