Thanks all - I certainly am trying. It's just so random. She drives quite a common car so when I see that brand/model -she'll pop in. I'll wonder if I will run into her if I go places. I wake up in the mornings and am almost grumpy and feeling a pit in my stomach. It was just frustrating as she seemed to really enjoy talking to me (said so herself) but wouldn't want any sort of relationship with me because she likes more country looking people.

Deep down I know that i'm not going to change her mind and am wasting my time in my mind giving that thought, but I can't seem to move past. I almost get jealous thinking of her being with other guys and I know that isn't fair.

I'm sure time will help like you've all said. AS for avoiding altogether right now that isn't possible. I don't work with her, but when I goto work I go past her three times a week. The interactions are no longer so it is quick but just a bad reminder each and every time. It does not help trying to forget that's for sure.

Anyway - thank you all. Going to try and build up my self-esteem a bit as I do think that is the root cause of this issue. I've never approached women very often. am normally quiet, but was certain this one was interested in me because of my good traits of niceness, sense of humour, etc. When it came down to the style of my looks it just kind of kicked me a bit.

Thanks!