Ugh, that sounds like a really ****** situation. Have you signed a lease ? Are you paying rent? If so you it's just as much your place as their' s and if she gets "bad energy" (Which is a BS excuse to say you don't like someone) she can leave.

In my experience people get insulted if you keep to yourself because they think you owe them your time or energy. You'd think it would be the opposite-someone who stays in their room most of the time would be easy to live with-but no. As far as the cleaning, so long as you are picking up after yourself and cleaning up messed you make they shouldn't have a problem. If she's the one who notices the stove looks dirty and has an issue with that , she can clean it her damn self.

Luckily the room mate I live with us awesome. We both respect each other's boundaries and don't nag at eachother. I'm admittedly the cleaner one of the two of us and I clean the house so that it looks the way I want it to. Some people have different standards as far as that goes. Just because a spot on the counter may bother me doesn't mean it has to bother my room mate nor should it.

I know people in the past have gotten had energy from me bt really all that is "I can't control you and make you into the person I want you to be". So please don't take offense to it. People are just weird. You don't owe these girls crap.