Hi Vallie, I really can't comment because I don't know what to say to help you, but I want to welcome you to PC. Being pregnant and depressed is tough (I suffered postpartum depression with both of my kids, but that was much different). Is there a possibility of switching you to a more pregnancy friendly medication? You really need to take care of yourself first...can you go to counseling to help alleviate your depression? Your house is a mess, kids need attention...what is your husband doing (sorry, but gotta ask)? This is a team effort, and, in my opinion, he needs to get on board. You'll have to find a way to talk to him (I know, not easy), but he needs to pull his weight. Just my opinion, please take it with a grain of salt). Hugs.