Dear MC,
I hope that e-mail was OK. I'm sorry for bringing up stuff about your wife. But I think I had to tell you that I was avoiding bringing stuff up because of her...And that now I understand why you weren't going to tell us...because of exactly this. I'm sorry I was so hard on you about it 6 months ago...My emotions about your loss was the last thing you needed to be dealing with then...
I love you,
LT