thanks everyone.

i guess its just hard watching my sister ruin her own relationships but never realizing that its her own fault. she does the same thing with her husband. flips out over nothing and then blames him while he is the calm one trying to talk about things. just boggles my mind.

i guess i just figure, if its either a) see my dad but have to see her too, or b) not see my dad at all... id rather have my dad back y'know? I just dont get why its not as important to her. maybe he is important to her, but the way she acts doesnt portray that. it seems like her being right, and everyone acknolwedging that shes right comes before anyone's feelings. so shes willing to not speak to her own father over an affair that went on almost 4 years ago.

the worst is being on the outside and witnessing her mess things up with her whole family. she called me one day and told me that she was snooping around her 13 year old daughters room and found a note that said she had a boyfriend. she was so upset that her daughter never told her. and i just said "don't you see what youre doing as maybe the reason she can't trust you with that stuff?" and she just got mad at me. i got my niece a journal last christmas that is programmed to her voice and her password so its locked unless she opens it lol. i told her to use it constantly!

just sucks not being able to talk to her. cause if anyone tells her that maybe she should try letting something go then she cuts off ties with whoever said that. i just dont get it.