I know what you mean about some people! Powermongers always go after something, be it race, gender, sexuality, etc. to make themselves feel superior. Not what some people need when trying to stay away from a drink!! After about 4 years in AA I started going to Al-Anon as well. It did me a lot of good.

I'd try lots of meetings whether they're 12 Step or not. You might luck up on some good meeting somewhere. Have you tried online meetings?