I have always struggled making female friends as well. The result being that I often find myself alone. It's lonely. Sure, I've made friends with my ex-husband's~ but they stuck on his side, after our divorce. Ex-boyfriend's female friends were also very kind and friendly with me, but that was when we were all together. I never did spend time with his female friends away from him.
The result is that I'm alone a lot of the time & I don't think that is real healthy.

Guys make friends with girls all of the time ~ we get along great! But, girls making friends with other girls seems to be some sort of art or something. Maybe I'll get the hang of if someday. *sigh*
(((hugs))) to you ladies. Best wishes!