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Originally Posted by junkDNA
before 2016 we texted daily. he would reply to some emails. talked on the phone rarely but it did happen in crisis times. but the texting was frequent, and daily on both sides (him texting me, me texting him) sometimes not even about therapy related things
however after last year he does not respond to 99% of my contact- email, text, and phone call voicemails. so i am on my own now
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JDNA, I'm sorry to be nosy and don't reply if you'd rather not: I'm just wondering why your T changed the contact and stopped replying?
The whole thing of contact is very difficult. I wonder if Ts don't realise how awful it can be for us, because we make a huge effort to trust them - well anyway I'm speaking about myself - and then if they don't reply, or they're not consistent, it's a huge blow. I'm experiencing this in a minor way at the moment (contacted T in a crisis and didn't get a proper reply)