I just exited a situation with my former T and am so confused if I did the right thing. I also have issues getting close and really freak out when I get attached. I dunno. It's all a fine line in my case, because I believe therapy had stalled and I do have a history of becoming attached to unavailable women (and just by the nature of her job, she's unavailable to the extent of which I desired platonically).

I'm certainly interested in the responses, because it's scary and agonizing.