Hey! Is hard to find women that are antisocia,l a.k.a. Psychopath/sociopath, I think that we show different behavior and we also take mostly different life paths where our symptoms are differently displayed and orienteded. Well, i do the exact same! I make involuntarily our life's hell! I tried this of the" list". The problem is that is not that I can make a list and give him, he will get angry, I just advice him storm after storm what might help me to no behave like an evil queen. He is also not Mr. Mental healh, he obviously also has some sort of disorder. Anyways, I see all his devotion and what he does for me. I still find extremely pleasurable to make him suffer. The point is that I've had always found pleasure in making people suffer or feel bad... and he's given me the perfect excuse for me to even unconsciously continue doing it. Also, since he knows/saw the real me, per say my extreme rage attacks, he is much more on alert, learnt a hell of a lot more about how to spot even, sometimes, my most perfectly undercovered passive-aggressive manipulation games. Most of the time he doesn't object it but just plays the roll I want him to play and later on when I discharged my rage he just also behaves again as if never anything happens. He is also very manipulative and can't stop laying the problem is that we both refuse to break up and start all over again.