Hello Kathryn999, I see this is your first post, so welcome to PC! I hope you find your time here to be of benefit. Once you have 5 approved posts, you will be able to enter the chat room and talk to fellow members. There is almost always someone online to chat with.

Your post reminded me of a relationship I was in for almost 3 years...he earned very little money and had anger issues, I was the main financial provider which is not fun! I finally decided to end it because I was not happy. That being said, we tried trial separation and what we could to salvage the relationship. Would you be willing to try couples counselling with your husband? Maybe it would really help to strengthen your relationship. If he doesn't change his ways though, I'd say leave...you don't need that toxicity in your life.