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Originally Posted by NeedHaldol
My wife and I have been married for 9 years now and we struggle to keep things interesting.
In the beginning, we couldn't stop f***ing.
So we are looking into things like date nights and such. We are spending more time talking and cuddling in bed. Just being close to each other will reignite the candle, we believe.
Anyways, I get your issue.
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That was us in the beginning too. The first time we had sex, he made me orgasm within a minute of of touching me. We have the connection, when he pays attention and puts in some effort.
But now, he doesn't want to talk in bed, he doesn't want to cuddle ever and sex consists of taking my underwear off, entering me and him coming within 2 minutes.
I don't even have chance to take my shirt off. I can't remember the last time I was naked with him ... It's like my after baby body completely revolts him :'(
I'm 125lbs and in good shape so I do try for him... I often receive compliments from other men that I look amazing for having 3 young children. I just wish he felt that way too.