From where I stand in my marriage my SO has gotten into the society's death trap of the gerbil wheel of life. We are pedestrian & have checked every box a suburban family could want. We should be happy. He is. I'm not.
I see the death of our marriage & so many others bec they have settled. Don't make waves or be different.
I don't want that. I want more & if it leads me to loneliness then I'll accept that.