I support your decision. My suggestion is to make certain, if you can, its a caring hospital with profesionals who not only know what they are doing but do it in a compassionate , caring manner. I'd be careful the pdocs are full of integrity. I know of a case where a pdoc went into a patients room. He said "Hello" and walked out. He charged the patient for a consulation. Its great you want to help your son. Some pdocs are more ethical than others. Bottom line Its important not to be ripped off.