Saw long term t for the first time in at least two years. Session was fine until the end. I came back to visit my family and was shocked this week to see my mom in a dementia like state. I'm pissed at my family's lack of a heads up and secrecy. I am in crisis.

I told long term t (of 25 years) that I know I can't do therapy with him out of state but I don't want to lose him from my life. I asked how can I do that? He said we might be able to say hi by phone for 2-5 minutes once in a while. I asked how do we set that up and can one happen soon. He was evasive and mostly silent. I left feeling devastated

I hate you long term t because you lied that I ever mattered.