Thread: Rupture with T
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Old Jul 07, 2017, 07:25 AM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by Erebos View Post
What I can't figure out is how you even know about financial issues?
That right there is bleeding boundaries that causes issues.
A clients only financial concern should be their own arrangement with their T. A T has no business dropping breadcrumbs of info about their financial situation.

Is she specialised in eating disorders...Because guilt tripping you about how ' She hadn't eaten because she was expecting to eat with you,' sounds like the opposite of not making food an issue.

I do wonder sometimes exactly what it Is T think they are doing.
Fingers crossed you feel better soon and kind find someone who knows what they are doing.
She says certain things during session. She went on the news here complaining about the healthcare system and how itwill affect her in a negative way. She speaks about her fears. She mentioned it to me during session a few weeks ago and said that the news crew went to her house to interview her about healthcare. I already knew she was involved in that fight but I didn't respond during my session. I didn't want to make my session about her healthcare fight or look at me I'm voicing myself and making myself known. I'm not sure if she was waiting for me to question her about it but I didn't need to since she already made it public.

As for the food I count chooses at all. In fact i was having such a tough time that perhaps if she chose then I would pick from there because it would narrow things down for me. Instead she made the whole thing into something else and put the blame on me. Now the eating was it about me Or her???? Again I don't mind how she perceives it but I expected a little more guidance from her but what I dot was anger and frustration from her. Then I voice myself and later say how ridiculous this is and she disappears.