I think sometimes this is why some therapists don't engage in long-term therapeutic relationships. It's just as easy for the therapist to become entrenched in a pattern of behavior just like the clients can. If this is a dance you two have done before, then your T might just be thinking, "well, we'll see how it goes this time.

Don't feel the need to stop talking about it, though. If it's helpful for you, then posting here is a good thing. You have so many people here who care about you.