I agree with Daisy, and know first hand it is just as easy for them to become 'attached' to us. Duchess said awhile ago that when it's time to part ways I'll get to grieve it openly with her - but she has to process it on her own time alone. It helped me see it differently I guess. She said that my set time slots that I have had for years will be someone else, and she's not sure she could handle that and may block out that time for awhile until she can process it.

She also told me on Wednesday that she would be more than extremely sad and then she'd be pissed that I didn't tell her before hand... What am I supposed to do seriously how does that work...