Hang in there. Personally I'd never stay with a man who doesn't work (if not on disability). There is no way. But I know many women who support their husbands who quit their jobs and stay home (no kids). Do you have kids?
I don't know if you are in
The US, but here if you stay married over certain number of years, you end up paying him alimony. My husband's ex never wanted to work and we now pay her big chunk of money every month. You have to be mindful that longer you wait more likely you'll pay him for many years or in some cases forever