A lot of caring here and some really good suggestions. I particularly like the suggestion of getting yourself in the position of meeting as many people as possible. My suggestion is volunteering.

Another avenue here that comes to mind... You have mentioned being socially awkward. What if you were to observe what other people are doing that seems to be successful. What is the non-verbal communication that is going on. 90% of our communicating is not oral. Watch for gestures with body and face. Take note of how people observe and respond to one another's comfort zones.