nadia, i don't think treevoice was trying to blame you they were just trying to give you insight into why you and how you could handle this problem. You are sensitive right now but after a few days the anger might subside and you can understand better why this person did this to you. Maybe they are a bit scared of you now that you seemed to have threatened them although you did not think it was that important and it took you off guard. If they are a true friend they will understand in the end and you could patch things up. I hope you feel ok and if not now then when the time is right in your heart. It has been broken.