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Originally Posted by unaluna
Okay, i hear that.
I wanted to change from 4 days a week to 1 (eventually went up to 2) because it felt like t was consuming my whole week. The hardest thing about that was claiming my right to say that about myself.
It sounds like rapprochement phase work to me? Im always stuck here, in so many ways.
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I'm going to read about that, new term for me. But yes it was very hard for me to stick to my guns so to speak and because of that, I can see now after the fact that I became more than a little combative. Maybe because we've been 'together' so long she lets her professional guard down sometimes and says things she should, as the professional, keep to herself. Even more of a reason to take a break now and get some distance from the intensity of stuff.