I was wondering if my avoidant issues drove me away. I tried to convey to her that I had faith in her, that I wasn't telling her how to do her job, that I wanted her to help me. But she didn't take it that way. I apologized. She didn't. Although she did say it was the room next door who slammed the door. So maybe I was mistaken about that...but not to do that in her office again. I'm still unsure what she meant...we were both talking over the other.