BTW - with this round (yep round #3 for me, I was 47 when I started, I'll be turning 49 just around the corner... so ... It happens when it happens and takes as long as it takes. I know with my issues, I don't think I would have been able to address them when I was in my 20's or early 30's. Maybe by late 30's... obviously late 40's, I'm ..ummm "good to go" HAHAHA... ok I'm being pushed/dragged through it ... LOL that is more like it. I'm able to drag and push myself to face this stuff. It's not easy. I have to admit, I'm a bit in awe of any of you doing this type of work in your 20's and 30's; to be so honest with yourself to do this work.