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Originally Posted by DodgersMom
no its not that, he assured me its when I'm ready.... but its just i dont do well with ppl who matter to me being out of my life. the longer i go, the harder it will be to end it.
this particular client he still sees weekly even thought he has told me its a gradual drop off, going less and less before you end.... and he says she is already struggling with it, with 4 month of prep to end it... i just dont see my handling it well, especially if a hit a year or more with him.
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Something you might want to put in the back of your mind is that what you feel and think today about concerning issues might not be the same if therapy is working for you. I always felt the longer I stayed around the more someone would get to know the real me, find me abhorrent and leave me. So it was important I do the leaving first. As therapy and my life evolved that changed. I can now hold onto what was and call it up if needed for support or if moments of loneliness come. If a therapy works then those people that matter will never really be out of our lives. We can hold onto them forever.