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Old Jul 08, 2017, 11:06 AM
tryingtobeconstruct tryingtobeconstruct is offline
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Originally Posted by scaredandconfused View Post
It would be helpful if you posted some examples of messages you are sending. It is possible that you are coming on too strongly.
I've thought a lot about that. I do get a bit verbose, so I've tried to tone that down. However, almost all the women I contact say they want something more than just a one sentence message.

The one time ever that I actually met in person a woman from online I started with a message of about 15 sentences. She liked it and responded. (Then she rejected me and I had a nervous breakdown, but that's beside the point... I think.)