man.... if i had a dollar for the times i've went through this over the years. I don't wish anyone to have to deal with a situation like this because it hurts on a level that most people don't understand. As a friend told me, i'll tell you this little piece of wisdom. It does hurt but they are the one who is in the wrong. Especially if you were just in it for platonic reason and not with hope that it would lead to something romantic. some are not meant to stay in our lives forever and it appears that she was one of them.