The guy i went on a date with. And doesn't want to commit to me. I asked him. If he was seeing other women. I just got this feeling. He is. He wants to see me again, but he is not wanting to commit to me. He said if I need a commitment this soon from the person I'm dating, he is not the guy for me. .

I was broken at first. I told him I want to see him again, but am pulling away now, too. he replied "sounds good!".

I'm ok. It was fun, but the reason we made out, was because there was nothing to talk about. .

I know I told him that I'd see him again. But I might choose not to.

I get that he works differently. And this is where I am mentally. We are not the same type of person. But I need to respect my personal boundaries and feelings.

I haven't always accepted and respected how I feel, with men, in the past. So this is new, and kinda hard for me. I don't really know about him as a partner either though.