The thread about exchanging "pleasantries" with you T got me thinking about something. Sometimes I want to ask T questions about herself such as if she is a cat person or if she has children but I already know the answer to these things because I have looked her up extensively on facebook. I think it would be dishonest or deceitful to ask her things acting like I don't already know so why do I still want to ask her?

I happen to know that T loves cats and so do I and I would like to bond with her over that but I don't want her to know I look her I look her up on facebook literally all the time. Ugh, why am I such a weirdo?