Breezy~day and Quarter life ......... your last posts were really well written and touched my heart. You guys hit the nail right on the head. People like us will never get a life as long as we care about what others think of us. I've spent so much of my life people pleasing while letting myself slowly become nonexistent.
I'm not talking about being selfish. It's about not being used also. At least in my case. People used my deficiencies to suck the life out of myself. As long as they got theirs, didn't really care about me or how I was feeling or what I was going thru. NO MORE. This doormat doesn't say welcome anymore, it says enter but beware!
Best to you all