I wasn't trying to force anybody to do anything. I appreciate your opinion, and agree, if you've read my other posts in this thread. I would never want him, or anyone to change who they are or how they feel, to accommodate me. Unless it was something they freely wanted to do. I'm not into forcing, pressuring others, etc.

I said I realize that I've been clingy and insecure. That means I'm taking responsibility for my actions and thoughts, despite the fact that I have them, and I do think it's ok to be where I am at.

I do think it's ok to express myself and how I feel to others, and ask them what's going on with them. In this case, I liked a guy, more than he liked me, and told him how I felt about him seeing other people, once i found out he was. I think people here are getting too caught up with the fact I went on only one date with him. I know. Please stop telling me what I'm doing wrong. I already know, and to have others say it, just makes me feel bad.