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Originally Posted by artemis-within
Um. I was going to wait until 7/19 but (I am ashamed to admit) I ended up asking to come on 7/12 for a half session so that's what we're gonna do. I couldn't stand leaving theings the way they were this past Wednesday, and not even leaving it the way the phone call on Friday went. I just couldn't do it. So I'm going to try to go talk about it this coming Wednesday. I'm still feeling so hurt by her saying that she doesn't know if we can fix this or not. even though by the end of the phone cal she said that an almost-6 year therapeutic relationship should be able to withstand a blowup, it's like all I heard was her said she didn't know if we could fix this.
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Just wanted to say my T has always believed the relationship can be mended and she owns her part in ruptures too. I've only seen her for 50 sessions.
I'm glad you're doing what feels right for you. I hope you know it isn't ALWAYS your fault -- your T has her parts to own too, and can she do that?