Dear all!! I really need your help, since I have a feeling that both my ex-girlfriend and I can make a biggest mistakes of our lives if we don't do the right thing! To try to cut this story as shortest as possible:
We were in a relationship, but since I had gone for a vacation with friends, she started pushing me away and telling me about being depressive.. Mostly due to her financial problems, which are huge. She's supporting her sister and her alcoholic father who lost jobs recently. After several months of her pushing me away and me trying to be there for her when she's depressed, she dumped me for a rich older guy! Now she's dating him, says she's still depressed and that she respects him but she has to be with him due to his money.
I am hurt and in pain.. But, I am not sure should I approach her and tell her not to make such a huge mistake.. Or it is better to just leave her with him? I want her for myself, although, even if she's not with him, we'd have to work on some issues - like honesty, etc.. Sometimes I hate her, sometimes I pity her and want to open her eyes.. But would that be possible, or she'd just push me further away?
Thank you all in advance!!