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Old Jul 10, 2017, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Altarian View Post
. there is a chance you have Haphephobia but i'm not a licensed medical provider so don't trust me on that. It takes many many baby steps and no the beyond hug is not ethical for your therapist to help you with. I wish you luck and as Jennifer said, keep moving forward.
i will talk with him about this tomorrow... but unsure how to ask about other touch stuff, i feel if i say i want to work on others, it will come off sounding sexual, which is the last thing i'd even want right now anyway, i'd run away screaming lol

i honestly would probably cry trying to hold his hand, just thinking of that gives me anxiety, i am not sure i can ever do that with anyone.

i am glad to know i am not alone though, i feel nuts and there is not much on google about this issue.

the hugs are a good small step but I'm still overthinking and anxious about it, i want to be able to just be in the moment and experience it, hopefully someday i can
Thanks for this!
cnyung10