Ok, I just don't like "secrets". I am a firm believer that if someone isn't doing somthing "wrong" then it should not be a "secret". I think this is a big secret this guy is keeping from his wife. Bottom line is, if he isn't ashamed or guilty of doing something, then why not get it out in the open???????? I know you know deep down in your heart the answer.

I don't want to see you get hurt, but take a look at what is happening. He is married. Maybe your vulnerable?? I don't know. I just don't see this as a good situation. Secrets and betrayal hurt and can destroy people. Why be a part of it?