I only do what absolutely must be done because no one will save me from it. I do not recover. Putting aside how I feel about the term (can't stand it), it implies that somehow I've "gotten better" to be able to do x,y,z. NOT SO.

What (would) help: a little help, like a little something to eat maybe. Or that there are some clean dishes. Or clothes. Hell, anything. Everything counts since everything is monumental. But that is about as common as a unicorn pissing koolaid at the end of a double rainbow.

What doesn't help: not "allowing" the person needing help to get it.

I wrote more, but erased because it was very angry. It's hard to express some of the frustrations I have.

Guess the p.s. would be the title of the thread... Responsibility. Some of us have way more than our fair share of the weight if it. Which doesn't help me one iota to "recover" from anything.